You should not be considering dating until your divorce is final. Being physically present in a relationship is only half the battle: You want to see how your new guy gets along with your friends and how he behaves in a group setting. Where once he daydreamed about you, now he daydreams to get away from you. Trial separation refers to an informal agreement between you and your significant other on a defined length of time that you both will separate for.
Number one for both of those is to keep you as the only woman in the world to him.
You can read my blogs and see some of my journey on the roller coaster called divorce. The dilemma of separation is either a divorce or a restored marriage. Where once he daydreamed about you, now he daydreams to get away from you. When we have a crush on someone, we think about them all the time. Sometimes letting go takes longer than expected.